The Power of Friendship
It’s fair to say that we have all learned a lot during the past surreal 12 months. We have learned how to cut our own hair. How to walk in single file when passing other families. How to ration our viewing of streamed box sets.
In business we have learned how to operate remotely from our colleagues. We have used new approaches to technology and developed processes to manage, supervise and support via Teams and Zoom.
For me, one thing that has stood out increasingly has been the importance of relationships.
My job is Business Development, and so creating links and alliances has always been something I have worked towards. It’s true (my FD was keen to point it out!) that the last twelve months we have been more successful than ever at winning new work, and that has been without any of my old style swanning around the country speaking at events and continuing to develop a worrying level of caffeine dependency.
However, I’m more and more convinced that what I did prior to the pandemic has played a major part in the ability to continue to operate and develop business opportunities.
We carried out analysis of the best sources of new work for our business and we found that by a long way, the two best sources of new enquiries were referrals from existing clients and referrals from strategic partners.
We are a service business so the first source is pleasing because it suggests our service teams are doing the great job that I tell everyone about. The strategic partner referrals are slightly different.
We have worked hard to create a network of legal sector specialist suppliers who know what we do and how we do it, so that if they come across a firm needing our type of services, they kindly refer them for a chat. The same works both ways, in that I know what they do, and given the opportunity can similarly point people in their direction.
We very much operate a ‘karma marketing’ approach- do enough good deeds for others and the good stuff will flow back around. It’s not commission based, it is good will based. And that’s where I get to the main point of this article (At last, I hear you cry!).
The strength of the business relationships developed over the years, and in many cases out and out friendships, meant that Teams and Zoom calls worked so much better. There was no awkwardness, and in many ways the fact that we were all desk bound meant we were able to meet far more frequently without the whole “When are you next in London?” type of scheduling nightmare.
We’ve also seen the power of groups of allies. We are involved with more than a dozen different groups, ranging from marketing and publication groups such as Calico Legal Group and Law Firm Ambition, to business networking groups like Northern Legal Alliance and Consortium of Professional Advisors. Joining these groups enables us to share ideas, to be introduced warmly to new friends, and to introduce others. This is old school networking, but enabled and strengthened by the joining of modern remote meeting capabilities with existing strong relationships. If the relationships weren’t there before we moved onto remote meetings, the interaction would not have been as strong and productive.
Law firms themselves benefit from some wonderful group memberships such as Lawshare, Fusion Law, Law South and Bold Legal Group, and we try to support those groups wherever possible. It’s all part of relationship development, and has enabled us to reach a broader potential market via webinars and publications.
One thing we have all come to appreciate is that whilst it is perfectly possible to thrive when working remotely and individually, there’s no need to work in isolation. There’s a real power in collaboration and relationship development, and long may that be the case.
Alex Holt, Cashroom

Lately we can add to that list people who have been made redundant by their firm due to Covid-19 related uncertainty, and those who have realised by working remotely for the best part of a year that they don’t actually gain very much from all the back-office infrastructure and cost their current firm has, and could very easily and seamlessly set up on their own. For example, one recent new enquiry told me that she has realised they don’t really need a receptionist to answer the phone – calls can be easily diverted to the relevant Partner, and they definitely don’t need multiple typists – it turns out that typing emails, or short letters, themselves isn’t that difficult or time consuming.
So, if you have started the new year with a resolution to set up your own firm, please do get in touch for an informal chat about it. We have been through this many, many times before with all different types and sizes of firms. We are very well placed to recommend some things you may want to think about, some networks you may want to join, some systems or processes you may want to put in place, some people you may want to consult with on, for example, which bank may be best suited for your needs, and of course we can chat through our service offering to ensure accounts rules compliance, payroll and accounting are taken care of, all without the burden of employing somebody.
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Economists debate why that is. However, one theory is that it takes time to work out how best to deploy new technologies effectively. Think about the “dot com boom” – everybody knew that the internet would revolutionise the world … but it took a while to work out how that would happen – hence the dot com bust. It takes time for businesses to work out how best to use technology and make the organisational changes that let them do it.
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She now keeps password details on yellow stickers next to her screen. [Clear security risk, but surprisingly common] The new system is cloud based and many data reports are available, however Maureen tends to provide info to the partners using Excel spreadsheets. It can take several weeks to pull the data into her old spreadsheets but she prefers to do it that way. [Inefficient process and providing the Management Information to the partners so slowly makes the information far less useful]
This year the firm has of course coped with Covid restrictions. Initially their work dropped off, but there has been a huge surge of conveyancing work since July. When the first lockdown occurred, Maureen was sent to work from home, however the firm’s technology and processes didn’t work for her. Her home wifi kept crashing as she tried to set up payments. The partners who were used to giving her tasks face to face struggled to implement remote working. Supervision and ongoing training of Joe was almost impossible. When things eased the firm decided to move the finance function back into the office, seating Joe and Maureen at either end of their room. [Many firms had the same problem- working securely and efficiently away from the office is not as easy as simply sending people home with a laptop]
My first take away, was how resilient our client firms are. While a few found the first lock down, challenging, all of them managed, with a mixture of home working, and minimising visits to the office.
As I mentioned above, residential conveyancing lawyers are nervous. There is normally a dip over the holiday period, but the expectation is that with increasingly sever lockdowns, and the expectation of increased redundancies, that will be exacerbated (one person referred to the Furlough Scheme as the “Redundancy Deferral Scheme”!). A number of people reported mortgage lenders dramatically tightening their lending criteria, making getting a mortgage much harder.
The biggest problem for individuals and business over the last few months has been uncertainty and a collapse in confidence. Everybody has put off significant purchases and investments because of uncertainty, and a lack of confidence. The result – a lot of people are sitting on cash – remember the firms who have their CBILS still sitting in the bank, and all that cash “looking for a home”?
There is no doubt that there is an increase in cyber awareness and firms are training
I promise I didn’t spend my honeymoon in Cornwall thinking about the legal sector and business generally. That would be tragic, and may well be the sort of thing that would lead to a very brief marriage.
When we were looking where to eat we would want to view a clear website, with the detail we needed (menus usually, and lists of cocktails!), and we would always consider some of the recent reviews and star ratings.